Burst of Negative Energy

You might have known that there are people who brings out the best in you...how about those who brings out the worst?! Friends and love ones usually makes you burst with positive energy. What would you call those people who makes you burst with negatives?

Are they enemies? Can you really call someone an enemy even if they're not doing anything to you? How do you best handle these people who annoys and affect you just by being there. And the worst part maybe is...they don't know that you are affected by their mere presence.

To get to the bottom of the feeling might be good but if it's costly at the moment, here are a few thoughts that might be helpful:

1. Avoidance. 

If you hate that person's gut for whatever you reason you had, it might be best to stay away from that person.

2. Impersonal.

If avoidance is not possible then try to be as impersonal as you could. Being friendly might be good for both of you but don't force it on yourself. You must accept that there are people you can be friends with and there are those that you can't.

Remember that if a person brings out the worst in you then you have no business being with that person. The world is too big. Take the pleasure in it. :)